joy?

what makes me so full of joy that tears are the only true release?

• the birth of a child
• laughter
• music - especially the cello
• abandoned worship

angry?

what makes me so angry i could spit?

• manipulation
• lies
• abuse
• injustice - especially political
• cruelty

ache?

what makes me ache?

• the vastness of the ocean and the mountains
• suffering - of any kind - but especially kids
• beauty
• mediocrity (this also fits under angry)
• schloss vollrads kabinett riesling
• the closing scene of love actually
• clearwater fishing camp

faster?

what makes my heart beat faster?

• preparing for a storm to come in
• heading straight into a dangerous situation to help others
• finding something precious that i thought was lost
• finally putting words to a thought that has been eluding me
• being on a boat - this is where i feel most alive
• being in the water
• fighting fires and preventing disaster

heartbeat

by listening to my heart. by choosing to decide. what makes my heart beat faster? what makes me ache? what makes me so angry i could spit, and what makes me so full of joy that tears are the only true release? the answers to these questions will guide me toward all that Jesus intends for my life.

this is a snippet of the last post. the next 4 posts will seek to answer the questions posed as a way of really seeking to put a finger on the heartbeat of my life. though not verbatim, i am following a basic concept outlined by dan allender in to be told.

because my thoughts are not linear, i am putting all four posts up... they will be works in progress. please know that you are welcome to add your thoughts in the comment section... whether they are something you know about me, or something you've learned about yourself along the way.

unrequited

have you ever found yourself at a crossroad, only to discover that you've been there many times before? all the landmarks are the same. the choices are the same - which means you've chosen the same circuitous route the last time you were here. how do you get off the merry-go-round and jump into the fray? how do you choose correctly, so as not to end up here again?

two roads diverged in a wood, and i - i chose the one less traveled, as frost has it. that's all fine and well if life were really just about "choose path a" or "choose path b". however... nothing is as simple as we'd like it to be, nor as clear and certain. Jesus is the Way, but we, by far and large, get to write our own stories. as someone who has made a myriad of poor choices along the way, it's a little disheartening to realize that i can't just sit back and expect the Lord to live for me. He invites us to journey with Him, to step out onto God's stage, to play our role well, as dan allender puts it in to be told. my constant and agonizing dilemma is that i don't have a clue where the stage is, much less which costume to put on, or what role i am to play. from what i've been hearing from the Lord, my life exists to reveal His glory, and to reveal an aspect of His character that no other life can. that's a cool thought - i just wish He had seen fit to send me a script.

let's take a little tangent to see if i can illustrate the larger thought process going on here - stick with me - it will seem convoluted, but hopefully, i will be able to wrap the thoughts together into some form of cohesive whole... i made a conscious decision to stick with my marriage long after it was nothing but a farce. i had convinced myself that i needed to do everything in my power to "make it work" so that i could look back and say that i tried everything i possibly could before i gave up - when, in reality, i had already given up. given the perspective of time and a little wisdom, i begin to see the flaws in that reasoning. my marriage was dead and doomed far before my ex left me. so what really led me to stay for many more years than i should have? the awful and honest answer is pride. i had to convince myself that i would shoulder no blame for the failure... which is total bullshit. of course i shoulder and share blame for failure - how arrogant and stupid of me to waste precious time "doing everything that i could" when there was nothing left to be saved. (i suppose i should add the caveat that we were unequally yoked...)

there was nothing about the extra years added to my marriage that glorified God. there was nothing there that pointed to Him... it was only after he had finally left me, and i finally had my excuse to divorce him - and promptly fell flat on my face - that the Lord showed up to fix anything. in my utter brokenness, He was able to finally get my attention, nay, submission, that He was really after... and i became teachable.

one of the words consistently used to describe me is "strong." i became "strong" as a way to cope with all life threw at me. let me just tell you, it's not all that it's cracked up to be. without the Lord, being strong equates to being hard, instead of the gentle strength that the Lord intends for us to possess. being "strong" required the Lord to be "stronger" than me. He allowed a series of major life events to happen in my life, one at a time, right on the heels of each other, and it was the sum of these events that eventually broke me, well before i understood the concept of brokenness - or was at least able to recognize it, and therefore name it.

so what about the life i lead right now glorifies God? not much is my biggest fear. what am i doing for the Kingdom of God? more importantly - what am i going to do for the Kingdom? these are the answers that i'm seeking, and the questions continually bring me back to this place - i've been brought back to this crossroad, able to recognize that i've been here before - and that i'd rather not come back to this place again... ever. so how do i put this behind me, so that i don't return to this place of loneliness, fear and uncertainty?

by listening to my heart. by choosing to decide. what makes my heart beat faster? what makes me ache? what makes me so angry i could spit, and what makes me so full of joy that tears are the only true release? the answers to these questions will guide me toward all that Jesus intends for my life. life is a journey into the heart of God, is it not? journeys don't imply places of rest, peace and respite... although i will surely encounter all of those many times in this life. journeys also involve aching with loneliness and death, struggle and defeat, triumph and joy. one of the ministers of my former church put it this way - find a problem and be a part of the solution. that leaves a ginormous number of possibilities, and i'd much rather be called with more specificity. the enormity of possibility is too overwhelming for me.

i've often described life as a series of seasons - i think "jaunts" may be a better word. these jaunts connect to become the larger foray into living life well. what matters most to me is that i reveal the character and glory of God along each jaunt... which brings me to the original thought for this post. i don't have difficulties embracing the Truth of who God says i am, or the sufficiency of the Cross, or the beauty of redemption. my life right now seems to be a paradigm between embracing the Truth and truly walking in it... and what does that look like, anyway? apparently not like i expected it to...

in this moment, watching the relentless onslaught of the waters of the gulf of mexico, i am struck by how hard i've tried to live the Truth i've been taught over the past several years - and how discouraging it is that i continue to end up here, at this same crossroad - again. i've taken some time to read back over the posts on this blog, and it seems that i've not made much forward progress in the things that my heart truly struggles with - acceptance, belonging, a deep need to be settled and secure... and needed, wanted and loved. my identity in Christ tells me that i am all these things, and more. would it be horribly uncomfortable for you if i admitted that, as much as i want that to be enough, it's not? i still ache for more... kinda like the little kid in grade school who has no friends and is constantly picked on, who, in an effort to comfort her, is told that Jesus loves her. yeah, that's great, but it doesn't stop the torment. or offering the homeless guy on the side of the road a track... you get the point. I WANT MORE.

here's the problem, as i see it. i've learned the value of community and developed a deep desire to abide there - yet i remove myself from it on a daily basis. my deep need for solitude is juxtaposed over my deep need to be valued. i am constantly barraged with thoughts of not belonging, which points to the warfare set against me. i don't have (much of) a problem with my current circumstances, but many in my life do, and that causes tension between my desire to be accepted and my desire to please God. my heart aches to be loved, and refuses the love offered. i am silent, even as i deeply mourn the silence of others in my life.

recognizing that i am my biggest problem has not yet helped me move forward. i am truly blessed with a few deep and abiding friendships, and we walk together, teaching each other more about loving God and loving man... and loving ourselves. there are other relationships in my life that feel more like curses, and it is time to talk to Jesus about what He wants to do about that. and while i'm so introspective and in a posture to listen... my heart has been mishandled from the beginning, by myself and by others. it's time to talk to Him about that, too.

hope

i woke up to these words (below)... this is the first time i've really been able to pray about what happened at virginia tech. yes, my heart has cried out for the families that lost so much, and the community there that is so deeply shocked and grieving. but today, the first words out of my mouth were a prayer of gratitude, as tears fell for the first time. "Father, thank You so much for a President who is wise enough to know that You are the only Source of comfort and hope for that community... and for his courage to point them to You."

this gratitude was followed quickly by anger aimed at the local media for only showing a snippet of his address where he tells the audience that the nation is thinking about them. "what the hell good does thinking do? what kind of hope does that offer?" i remember those words blazing through my mind as i watched the news last night. the hypocrisy of the media absolutely astounds me. they - by far and large - jump up and down on their 1st amendment right to print whatever the hell they want to, regardless of who it harms, and then dare to turn around and manipulate someone's words so as not to offend.

i'll now step down off my soapbox and allow my heart to return to that state of gratitude and hope. President Bush's words are below. i hope they offer you the same comfort they offered that community, and me. thank you, Mr. President, for your courage and wisdom.

here's the link - President Bush Offers Condolences at Virginia Tech Memorial Convocation

THE PRESIDENT: Governor, thank you. President Steger, thank you very much. Students, and faculty, and staff, and grieving family members, and members of this really extraordinary place.
Laura and I have come to Blacksburg today with hearts full of sorrow. This is a day of mourning for the Virginia Tech community -- and it is a day of sadness for our entire nation. We've come to express our sympathy. In this time of anguish, I hope you know that people all over this country are thinking about you, and asking God to provide comfort for all who have been affected.

Yesterday began like any other day. Students woke up, and they grabbed their backpacks and they headed for class. And soon the day took a dark turn, with students and faculty barricading themselves in classrooms and dormitories -- confused, terrified, and deeply worried. By the end of the morning, it was the worst day of violence on a college campus in American history -- and for many of you here today, it was the worst day of your lives.

It's impossible to make sense of such violence and suffering. Those whose lives were taken did nothing to deserve their fate. They were simply in the wrong place at the wrong time. Now they're gone -- and they leave behind grieving families, and grieving classmates, and a grieving nation.

In such times as this, we look for sources of strength to sustain us. And in this moment of loss, you're finding these sources everywhere around you. These sources of strength are in this community, this college community. You have a compassionate and resilient community here at Virginia Tech. Even as yesterday's events were still unfolding, members of this community found each other; you came together in dorm rooms and dining halls and on blogs. One recent graduate wrote this: "I don't know most of you guys, but we're all Hokies, which means we're family. To all of you who are okay, I'm happy for that. For those of you who are in pain or have lost someone close to you, I'm sure you can call on anyone of us and have help any time you need it."

These sources of strength are with your loved ones. For many of you, your first instinct was to call home and let your moms and dads know that you were okay. Others took on the terrible duty of calling the relatives of a classmate or a colleague who had been wounded or lost. I know many of you feel awfully far away from people you lean on and people you count on during difficult times. But as a dad, I can assure you, a parent's love is never far from their child's heart. And as you draw closer to your own families in the coming days, I ask you to reach out to those who ache for sons and daughters who will never come home.

These sources of strength are also in the faith that sustains so many of us. Across the town of Blacksburg and in towns all across America, houses of worship from every faith have opened their doors and have lifted you up in prayer. People who have never met you are praying for you; they're praying for your friends who have fallen and who are injured. There's a power in these prayers, real power. In times like this, we can find comfort in the grace and guidance of a loving God. As the Scriptures tell us, "Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."

And on this terrible day of mourning, it's hard to imagine that a time will come when life at Virginia Tech will return to normal. But such a day will come. And when it does, you will always remember the friends and teachers who were lost yesterday, and the time you shared with them, and the lives they hoped to lead. May God bless you. May God bless and keep the souls of the lost. And may His love touch all those who suffer and grieve.

ruined, again

[many of the ideas here are not original thought - they are largely lessons learned from the team at ransomed heart, and from the ring, and things He's shown me along the way...]

Jesus ruined my life.

you know... the life i had all planned out growing up. not dreams, per se, but life according to ann. my plan. my life.

my life, huh? ummm... not so much - but i have a sneaking suspicion that He has so much more in store for this life than i've ever dared to imagine.

if my life had turned out as planned, let's look at what my life would look like today. (i'll keep it to adulthood, for the sake of readability) i got married at 22, and immediately started trying to have kids. i wanted 3-4 boys (NO girls!) and i was going to be finished having kids by age 30. i bought my first house at age 23, and planned to own my home outright by flipping homes 3 times. so by now, i would have been married 12 years, had 3-4 boys and been working on house number 3.

now, let's look at what my life actually looks like. i'm divorced. and single. no kids. no home. no job, for that matter.

now, it seems to me that when the Lord strips away EVERY aspect of your life, He has a damn good reason for doing so. circumstantially, from the outside looking in, my life is pretty scary to most people. in His eyes, it's EXACTLY what it's supposed to be... strange that He has taken so much time, involved so many people and has gone to so much trouble just for me. God doesn't strike me as One to jack around with His kids' lives just for the entertainment factor - although i have to admit to imagining Him getting a really good, deep-down belly laugh from my antics, shaking His head in wonder or bemusement every now and again.

He didn't just ruin my life. He ruined me. there's a couple of things i've learned about the Lord over the years. He's a REALLY BIG GOD. He is faithful, especially when we are not. you don't have the power to screw up His plans. you can choose to participate to the fullest, or stay in the margins. He is not safe. He's an insane risk-taker. He's incredibly vulnerable, with a quiet strength that just staggers me. He's wildly lavish, and decidedly jealous. He will break you to have you, and He will ruin your life. He is passionate in His pursuit of you, and will do anything to win your heart... which just happens to be the one thing He can't take from you.

when you really wrap your brain around Who He is (good luck with that), around His extravagant love for us... just a glimmer of that knowledge will absolutely ruin you. it will wipe away every preconceived notion of what life is supposed to look like, who you thought He was, what you thought the message of the Gospels is - all ruined, just like that. poof. and when you come face to face with your sulf-sufficient pride, arrogance - your humanity - sigh. and then He... He brings you fully into His heart, and you realize that there is more going on here than you dared to imagine. "i wonder what sort of tale we've fallen into?" sam wonders in the fellowship of the ring. yes, exactly.

following Jesus is not about behavior modification. it's not about being good or following the rules. it's not about duty or obligation or even sin (GASP)... and it's not about circumstances. following Jesus is about love. it's that simple, and that profound... and that beautiful.

cooper's blog

so many of you have been asking for updates on cooper. well, little did i know that he has a blog! his link is to the right - i encourage you to read the entire blog when you have a chance - such an awesome testimony of God's faithfulness and his parent's faith.

on behalf of the lusk's and the ring community church, THANK YOU for your love and your prayers.

GOD IS SOOO GOOD!!!

influence, part 3

yes, i realize that you've not read "influence, part 2" - it ending up being a prayer, and will only exist as a draft.

the only purpose of writing "influence, part 3" is to simply say that there won't be any more posts in this series. all fears that were circling in my heart and mind have been allayed by the Lord with the psalm quoted in "ruined" and there is no reason to dwell or tarry there.

HE has made me a promise, and i trust HIM with all my heart.

ruined

the Lord gave me this psalm in mexico, a much-needed reassurance for my heart... i love how He calms my fears, not just for the craziness that is my life, but my fears for others that i love so deeply.

this crazy, wild Lover God has ruined my life... and i love Him for it.

1 Sing joyfully to the LORD, you righteous;
it is fitting for the upright to praise him.
2 Praise the LORD with the harp;
make music to him on the ten-stringed lyre.
3 Sing to him a new song;
play skillfully, and shout for joy.
4 For the word of the LORD is right and true;
he is faithful in all he does.
5 The LORD loves righteousness and justice;
the earth is full of his unfailing love.
6 By the word of the LORD were the heavens made,
their starry host by the breath of his mouth.
7 He gathers the waters of the sea into jars;
he puts the deep into storehouses.
8 Let all the earth fear the LORD;
let all the people of the world revere him.
9 For he spoke, and it came to be;
he commanded, and it stood firm.
10 The LORD foils the plans of the nations;
he thwarts the purposes of the peoples.
11 But the plans of the LORD stand firm forever,
the purposes of his heart through all generations.
12 Blessed is the nation whose God is the LORD,
the people he chose for his inheritance.
13 From heaven the LORD looks down
and sees all mankind;
14 from his dwelling place he watches
all who live on earth-
15 he who forms the hearts of all,
who considers everything they do.
16 No king is saved by the size of his army;
no warrior escapes by his great strength.
17 A horse is a vain hope for deliverance;
despite all its great strength it cannot save.
18 But the eyes of the LORD are on those who fear him,
on those whose hope is in his unfailing love,
19 to deliver them from death
and keep them alive in famine.
20 We wait in hope for the LORD;
he is our help and our shield.
21 In him our hearts rejoice,
for we trust in his holy name.
22 May your unfailing love rest upon us, O LORD,
even as we put our hope in you.

--psalm 33 (niv) (emphasis mine)

yes and amen

one day, my heart will reflect the words to the song below. until then, i can only follow my heart, with much fear and trembling.

"HE will break you to have you." well, the wrestling match is over, and i lost. i'm broken, by HIM and for HIM.

yes and amen
hear Your people saying yes
hear Your people saying yes to You
yes to anything You ask
yes to anything we´re called to do
hear Your people say amen
hear Your people say amen to You
let Your kingdom come on earth
let it be just like we prayed to You
yes and amen to everything that´s in Your heart
yes and amen to everything that You have planned
we live to see Your will be done
and see Your perfect kingdom come on earth, on the earth
yes and amen
we´re taking up our cross for You
give us the strength to take these dreams and follow through
we live to see Your will be done
and see Your perfect kingdom come on earth, on the earth
all the promises are yes
all the promises are yes in You
every good and perfect gift
every blessing that we have was You

--Matt Redman, Robert Marvin and Josiah Bell

©2006 Thankyou Music (administered worldwide by EMI CMG Publishing, excluding the UK which is administered by Kingswaysongs.com) lyrics from www.mattredman.com

extravagant

what a way to begin captivating 2!!! sometimes, the Lord just likes to show off...

we went to see chris tomlin, matt redman AND louis giglio at the pmac wednesday night - what an awesome gift from the Lord, and an amazing way to prepare our hearts for what He has in store for us high up in the rockies!

His love truly is extravagant!!!

eva

welcome to a very deep place in my heart...

introducing eva cassidy - one of the greatest blues artists to ever live. this is "fields of gold", written by sting, and covered on her "live at blues alley" cd. this is one of my favorite songs of all time.

influence, part 1

the next few posts will not be light reading. there is much here you may not agree with. that's ok. they are my thoughts, and i don't claim to be 100% right. you are welcome to chime in to agree, disagree, or offer your own thoughts... if, through these words, i have caused you to dwell, to tarry, to think... then i will have accomplished what hoped i would with these posts.

i've been mulling over this idea for about a month now, knowing it needs to be written out - there's been much pondering and praying for words to convey what's been circling in my heart and mind. i am pressed hard to write today, so i am... but i don't really have a clue what's going to come out of these fingertips yet. nothing rehearsed, no organized thoughts... just ideas and words swirling around.

i think that most people in my world - including myself - don't realize the influence that they have on others, and that others have on them. at least, i hope that's the case... because influence is a funny thing - it can easily be used for good or bad, despite our best intentions, which points to the very real need to filter everything we say, do and/or hear through the Word of God... and sometimes that's tricky, too, because it's very easy to latch onto one verse that seems to support our viewpoint or position, but it's all too easy to twist and warp the Truth of God's Word into something that's not truth at all.

take the book of james, for example. we've been studying it for the past few weeks, so it jumps readily to mind as a good example of a bad influence. i've never liked the book of james (gasp) until we really dived in and studied it backwards and forwards. kudos to the people who prepare the material for community groups, for in my humble opinion, they have done an EXCELLENT job of taking a difficult text and making sense of it. i say "difficult" from a strictly personal viewpoint - you'd think that as much as i dislike dancing around issues that i would really dig james' refusal to 'mince words', as josh put it. my dislike for that particular book stemmed from how easily and frequently one verse can be taken out of context... and used to persecute and harm untold numbers of people over the ages. think salem. think the crusades. think of the ultra-conservative theologians or clergymen who ostracize God's children, standing on their interpretation of "truth", without taking the entire text into consideration, or the intended audience, or the context, or any of the significant factors that make God's Word beautiful and life-giving, instead of ammunition meant to kill and destroy.

i believe that we are ultimately responsible before the Lord for our words, our actions, our decisions - our lives - and will have to stand before Him one day to account for them. i believe fully in the grace of Christ, but it still makes me weak in the knees when i really think about that day. when thinking about that day, it's easier to wrap our minds around what we've done wrong in our lives (deliberate sin) than it is to really dig in and think about the less obvious aspects of our lives - motive comes readily to mind, and is perfectly in line with a discussion on influence.

to be continued...

annie's song!!!

i found it!!!

ok, so it's not the original 1974 version (i'm a purist, what can i say?) but this will still let you experience it as a worship song...

click here to go back to the original post so you can read the lyrics as you listen with both your heart and your mind...

that's just good stuff.

truth

last summer, even after hearing a resounding "YES" from the Lord about joining the ring, i still needed my heart and mind to line up.

it turned out to be a very easy decision to make. it came down to one question... just one.

"am i being fed TRUTH consistently, not just on sundays, but all the time in my interaction within this community?"

the immediate answer was, "YES"... and every now and again, He proves it to me just to punctuate His answer.

i love it when He does that.

relevant

i've been asked a lot of questions and had much concern expressed by many of you, prompted by the last couple of posts. churning on the responses, it's occurred to me that there is one question conspicuously absent:

what does Jesus have to say?

it seems to me that hearing His voice is paramount right now... it is of the utmost import. i could be totally off here, but isn't the whole point of Christ's return, the atonement, the restoration, the salvation, the sanctification - all of it - isn't walking with God about ever-increasing dependence on Him? at the core of it, isn't that what faith truly is? i can't think of one instance in the Bible where we are instructed or encouraged to become independent from God - that's what got us in this mess to begin with, all the way back in the garden.

please know that i'm not disagreeing with any of you, or trying to pick a fight. this is a struggle in my mind, and i welcome any thoughts you are willing to share.

silent

my frustration level is running on high octane right now... the decisions i need to make become more and more convoluted and confusing as time passes. stemming from a desperate need to understand what the hell is going on in my life, i'm putting to words what i believe are my options. because this is such an inward-focused post, it may not make any sense at all to you - and that, in some ways, is deliberate. i need to be able to get it all out and not worry about it's readability. call it brainstorming, heartsearching, bellyacheing, whatever, but this one is for me. i share it with you because i believe so stongly in sharing our lives with one another - but i make no promises as to you having a clue what i'm writing about.

the way i see it:

option 1 - seattle - mhgs
option 2 - seattle - job
option 3 - baton rouge - nobts
option 4 - baton rouge - job
option 5 - baton rouge - lsu
option 6 - run away

the way He sees it:

options 1-6 - lack of faith

on top of all this is a silent disapproval that permeates many of my relationships... which stems from a lack of understanding and social norms. i totally get it that you don't get it - i don't get it either.

unexpected

so much for me trying to get my sleep schedule back to anything resembling "normal"... with the addition of the music player to this blog, i've been searching through all my old music to find songs that mean something to me so that i can share them with you. this morning, i was up past 4 am looking for one particular song. the name was eluding me, and that was driving me nuts... so, stubborn one that i am, i dug out some old cd's that i burned almost 5 years ago, to the day - i burned them right around the time my divorce was finalized.

i have never listened to them.

i know that's strange - but i knew when i burned them that my intent was not to listen to them, but rather to capture a season of my life so as not to lose it. i wanted to capture all of the emotion, pain, fear and loneliness of that time, even as i wanted a place where the good memories could remain, intact and unforgotten. the cd's are entitled, "heartbreak 1" and "heartbreak 2". going through them tonight, it's amazing how beautifully they reflect the end of a relationship, the end of that part of my life, and how they even manage to allow some of the good times to bring a smile to my face. even as my heart tugged, there were very few tears... i only actually cried when enya's "intro to watermark" came on - how random is that??? out of 40 songs ranging from clint black and keith whitley (yes, country - what else fits so well in this situation?), the calling to stp, rem to system of a down, godsmack to son volt, bad company to nirvana, alice in chains to pavarotti... the songs manage to capture all of the emotions, and, in some very strange way, to validate them. the pain was real, and even with the passing of time and the fading of those memories, it's strange to realize that i need those emotions to be valid and real.

huh. i never realized that i needed that until just now.

the lack of tears was unexpected and somehow reassuring. to find that i have reached a point where i can look back and smile, remember, and KNOW that part of my heart is healed... that's priceless. it was quite an experience to listen to the music, remember the pain, and it not be about my ex. it was rather surreal, now that i think back over it. the pain was dull and sharp, all at the same time, but it wasn't about him, it was about the death of the relationship. strange distinction, i know, but real all the same.

Jesus stepped into the darkness that still lurks deep in the recesses of my heart, and although He has already done so much, He continues His healing work - sometimes without me even realizing it. there are other wounds stemming from that time in my life that are yet to be addressed... but it seems as though He brought me there tonight just to show me how far He's taken me. i think He just offered me a gentle nudge of reassurance that He is continuing His work of changing and softening and reshaping my heart. that's so amazing to me... and so gracious of Him to go back to that place with me, especially because i didn't even know i needed to go back.

i've never been one to look back very often - i believe my life is about where i am going, not about where i've been. i do so every now and again here on this blog as a way to share my life with you, and as a way for me to go back and let Him finish anything left unattended after all this time. i think it's fair to say that i am not normally given to shying away from pain, conflict or struggle - and i think it's cool that He's pointed out that He was redeveloping and reshaping those qualities even back then. it's incredible to look back now and see His hand all over this life. i love how personal He is! speaking of - brian has a great post up right now about how personal Jesus is - not just Jesus Himself, but His message, His way - all of Him is just, well, intimately involved and intertwined in our lives, throughout our lives. nate also has a really good post that explores this... this... inward invasion of our hearts.

inward invasion - that's exactly right! Jesus stands, just here, waiting for us to ask Him in. once we do... watch out. He's up to more than just binding up the brokenhearted - He's here to stay, and His presence creates a longing, a yearning, for MORE - more healing, more love, more of our hearts given over to Him, day after day. in my experience, i couldn't just give Him my heart and all the brokenness there... at least, it wasn't a one-time deal. trusting Him as Savior is one thing - getting to know Him is quite another experience. we keep going back, going deeper. the whole point of intimacy is a complete and thorough knowledge of one another - reciprocity is the key that allows for relationship. the overflow of this relationship is love - love for God and love for man. those would be commandments 1 and 2, as it turns out. funny that, as that's where release for the prisoners (oppressed) begins, as well. (in case you're unfamiliar with the text, i'm referencing isaiah 61:1-2, which Jesus quoted in luke 4:18-19 when He revealed Himself as the Christ.)

i'm not sure how i progressed from looking for a song, to realizing that my pain was real and valid, to recognizing His inward invasion of my heart, and, from all this, to have arrived at the very basics of being a disciple of Christ - love. He's doing something pretty crazy in me. in the space of 12 or so hours (it's taken a while to get this post right), He's taken me from the death of a tangible relationship to the reality of life with Him.

from death to life... that's the beauty of the Gospel. it's the allure of the invitation to freedom and life... and the invitation to die, so that we may live - and that others may live, as well.